We caught up with the brilliant and insightful Renee Robley a few weeks ago and have shared our conversation below.

Alright, Renee thanks for taking the time to share your stories and insights with us today. What did your parents do right and how has that impacted you in your life and career?

What My Parents Did Right

Looking back on my upbringing, I realize my parents’ greatest gift to me wasn’t just love and support—it was the confidence to know who I was, stand by my choices, and navigate the world with resilience. They laid a foundation that has shaped not only my life but also my career, my passions, and now, my own approach to parenting.

One of the most important lessons they taught me was to know my truth and stand by it. From an early age, they encouraged me to share my opinions—respectfully, of course—but firmly. I wasn’t raised to be easily swayed by peer pressure or uncertainty. Instead, they made sure I understood that I had a unique personality, one that deserved to be heard. This lesson carried into adulthood. If I’ve thought something through and feel comfortable with my decision, I move forward. No hesitation. No second-guessing.

My parents also instilled in me a fearless approach to trying new things. It didn’t have to make sense to them—especially to my dad—but if I had an idea, they encouraged me to go for it. They never made me feel bad for failing, and that sense of freedom gave me the courage to take risks. I’ve tried, failed, tried again, and sometimes even succeeded. But the lesson was never about winning or losing; it was about showing up and giving my best effort.

I remember after graduating with one of my degrees, I was juggling two barely-paying jobs. Looking back, I have no idea how I managed. But I showed up every day, ready to work, driven by the values they instilled in me. I leaned into my work ethic, knowing that no matter where I was or what I was doing, I had to give my best. At the same time, I kept in mind another core lesson: know your worth. That mindset led me to experiment with new ideas—including my food blog, which eventually became a defining part of my life.

Beyond work, they modeled a balanced life, filled with hard work, passion, and community. They both contributed heavily to the arts and gave back to their community. My mom was always volunteering, my dad was always involved in something creative. The message was clear: if you want to do something, go for it. That drive to be a part of something bigger than myself has been the foundation for many of my own ventures.

Most of all, my parents showed up—always. They never missed a moment. Every track meet, every tennis match, every steelpan practice, every late-night rehearsal—they were there. If they couldn’t be, they sent someone. I think of them sleeping in the car while I practiced late into the night, and I realize that their presence wasn’t just about support; it was their way of saying, we believe in you. That kind of belief is powerful. It builds confidence. It shapes the way you move through life.

I felt it most profoundly when I was earning my Master’s degree. It was one of the hardest times of my life—emotionally, professionally, personally. I was the only woman in my program, dealing with the weight of expectation and the reality of a tough job market. The day I graduated, I wasn’t even sure if I was proud of myself. But then, I heard my parents clapping in the auditorium, louder than anyone else. It hit me: They were prouder of me than I was of myself. In that moment, I realized that everything they had poured into me—every lesson, every value, every sacrifice—had led to that moment.

Now, as a parent myself, I think about how I can do the same for my son. He’s autistic, and I sometimes worry about how the world will perceive him. But then I remember: my job is to instill in him the same confidence my parents gave me. If he knows who he is, if he knows his worth, and if he understands how he can positively contribute to the world, then nothing and no one can throw him off his track.

That’s what my parents did right. And it’s what I hope to pass on.

Awesome – so before we get into the rest of our questions, can you briefly introduce yourself to our readers.

Meet Renz: Bringing Caribbean Flavors to Every Kitchen

I’m Renz, and I create content that revolves around food—Caribbean food, to be exact. As a Caribbean girl living outside the islands, I share what I eat, how I adjust my meals based on what’s available to me, and how I experiment with new ideas. My goal isn’t to influence—I’m here to encourage. If I can make it, you can too.

I first started this journey back when I was in grad school and working in tech. I needed something to break the monotony, so I began sharing my food under the name HomeMadeZagat. Over time, I realized I had a bigger purpose: I wanted to showcase Caribbean food beyond the well-known curry and jerk dishes. I wanted to highlight the diversity of our cuisine—the many ways we prepare the same dishes, the influences from our multicultural history, and how, despite our differences from island to island, there’s so much that connects us.

What I Do

At the heart of it all is my food blog, ThisBagoGirl, where I share my recipes in written form. I also have my Instant Pot cookbook, Pressha It, which reimagines some of our favorite Caribbean dishes for a faster cooking experience—without losing that deep, familiar flavor. And behind the scenes, I’ve been working on a new product that I’ve been testing for over a year.

Who I Help & How

I help people recreate the dishes they love, even if they don’t have a recipe for it. My logical brain loves breaking down every step as if I’m explaining it to my 7-year-old. Whether it’s someone from the Caribbean longing for a taste of home, a first-generation Caribbean American wanting to connect with their roots, or someone completely new to Caribbean cuisine, I want to encourage them to try it, adjust it to their taste, and just enjoy the process.

What Sets Me Apart

I’m not a trained chef—I actually have three tech degrees and spent the least amount of time in the kitchen growing up. I had no grandmother teaching me how to bake bread and no long-standing family tradition of making dishes from scratch. I’m just someone who loves food, loves experimenting, and wants to help others do the same. My audience is full of people like me—regular folks who just want to make good food without overcomplicating it.

What I’m Most Proud Of

The community I’ve built. I’ve connected with incredible people—some of whom have become real friends—who support and inspire me daily. It’s not just about me sharing recipes; we’re all in this together, learning, adjusting, and celebrating our culture through food. One of my favorite moments? A follower told me her child, who never asks for seconds, requested more of a dish she made from my recipe. That’s a win!

What I Want You to Know

I want people to cook, eat, and be happy. That’s it. Try a recipe. Adjust it to your liking. If you don’t like it, at least you gave it a shot! If you’re new to my content, I always recommend starting with Pelau or my pone recipe—those are always a hit.

What’s Next?

I have this big dream of creating a community cookbook—a physical one. It’s an idea I’ve been sitting on for a while, and I hope to make it happen in my lifetime. Until then, I’ll keep sharing, experimenting, and encouraging others to bring a little Caribbean flavor into their kitchens.

Any insights you can share with us about how you built up your social media presence?

How I Built My Audience on Social Media & Advice for Beginners

I started my social media journey on Instagram, mainly because I love taking pictures of food. IG was the perfect place to showcase my dishes, and for the first few years, my audience grew organically. I didn’t have a set strategy—I just showed up as myself, sharing my food and experiences as they happened.

One big boost came just before COVID when I was featured in a “Caribbean Food Bloggers to Follow” post. That visibility helped, but at the core, it was always about being consistent in a way that felt natural to me. However, life also happens. When my dad passed away, I had to take a step back. I couldn’t show up as “Renz” during that time, and I gave myself the space I needed.

When video started taking over, I had to adjust. If I’m being honest, I don’t like talking much, but here I am now doing voice-overs—dry humor and all! One of my biggest viral moments? My pone recipe. That black pepper addition had people tussling in the comments! I’ve noticed that posts highlighting regional variations in Caribbean food always spark a lot of discussion. I don’t always love the way some people struggle to respect the differences, but I do appreciate how those posts introduce more people to my work and the diversity of Caribbean cuisine.

Challenges & Lessons Learned

One of the hardest parts of building a social media presence is the pressure to always show up—and dealing with negativity. I can handle some good old Caribbean picong, but personal attacks? That’s tough. And while many creators chase virality, I’ve learned that I don’t enjoy it. Too many notifications trigger my anxiety, and I realized that trying to go viral just for the sake of it isn’t worth it.

My biggest mistake? Chasing numbers instead of focusing on my actual goal. It’s easy to get caught up in the hype of trying to grow fast, but I had to remind myself why I started: to build a community of people who respect each other and want to share their food stories. Whether that’s 10 people or 100,000 people, I’m fine with that.

Advice for Those Starting Out

Know your goal and stick to it. Social media can be distracting, and it’s easy to get lost in what others are doing. Always remember why you started.

Ask questions and network. In Caribbean culture, we’re sometimes hesitant to share or ask for help. I wish I had connected with others earlier—I’ve learned that it doesn’t have to be a solo journey.

Create a schedule. Over the last year, I started planning my content better, and it helped reduce my overwhelm. Without structure, I tend to disappear into my hole, but with a plan, I can stay consistent.

Consistency matters. Not just for growth, but for your audience. They expect to see you, so show up in a way that works for you.

Engagement is key. It’s not just about pleasing the algorithm; it’s also about knowing that your hard work is seen and appreciated.

Going viral shouldn’t be the goal. If it happens, great. However, creating content just to go viral is not sustainable or rewarding. Focus on building something meaningful instead.

At the end of the day, I keep going because I just love sharing food. I love making something, eating it, and talking about it. That’s my drive. And if my food can inspire someone else to get in the kitchen and try, then I’ve done what I set out to do.

How can we best help foster a strong, supportive environment for artists and creatives?

How Society Can Better Support Artists, Creatives, and a Thriving Creative Ecosystem

In many ways, creatives are still not fully respected or appreciated—especially if they’re not celebrities. Society tends to give more value to traditional 9-to-5 jobs, while creative work is often seen as a hobby rather than a career. But creativity isn’t something you can just turn on—it’s a skill set, a craft, and real work that requires time, effort, and dedication.

One of the biggest misconceptions is that being creative isn’t hard work. People don’t always realize what goes into the process. Take food blogging, for example—if I’m testing a recipe three to five times to perfect it, that’s not just time-consuming, it’s expensive. Groceries aren’t cheap, and content creation requires investment. This is why many creatives monetize their work, and I wish more people understood that. Supporting a creator doesn’t always mean spending money—sometimes, all it takes is watching a five-second video, resharing a post, or engaging with their content to help them reach a larger audience.

What Society Can Do to Help

Mentorship & Community – Having creative spaces where artists can lean on others in their field is incredibly valuable. Mentorship creates opportunities, provides guidance, and helps creatives feel less isolated in their journey.
Authentic Representation – Caribbean creatives, in particular, are often overlooked. Large publications will feature “Caribbean food,” but what they showcase is often far from what we know it to be. Meanwhile, authentic Caribbean creators struggle to get the same visibility. The industry needs to do better at recognizing and amplifying real Caribbean voices.
Financial Support & Fair Pay – Creative work is work. More opportunities for grants, funding, and fair pay for content creation would make a big difference.

How Everyday People Can Support Creatives

Engage with their content – Comment, like, and share—it makes a bigger difference than people realize.
Use their affiliate links – Clicking an affiliate link costs nothing but helps a creator earn.
Buy their products – If they sell a cookbook, ebook, or product, consider supporting them directly.
Encourage them – Creatives often work in isolation. A simple message saying, “I love what you’re doing” can be a huge boost.

For Those on the Creative Journey

If you’re a creative trying to build your space, keep your eye on the prize. The journey is long—it’s not a quick win. But if your goal is genuine, keep going. Your audience will find you.

Contact Info:

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